"Superbing and preventing old age" is a traditional Chinese society concept. Many parents have children, hoping to report back and take responsibility for taking care of their later years. However, if it is too extreme, it may endanger the happiness of the daughter. A few days ago, a netizen shared on her face that her friend's parents deliberately did not let her daughter contact the sexual intercourse in order to ask her daughter to continue to support her parents, which caused her to "can't find her partner."
A netizen posted a message in "Breaking Resentment 2 Commune" that he had a sister with good relationships, who was 30 years old but was unmarried. Later, he learned that it was because "my sister's father only has her one daughter, so she was not allowed to take care of her, make makeup, and even had doors." The purpose was to separate her from sexual intercourse and prevent her from getting married, so she would "stay at home and take care of them until she died."
The original PO said that she had tried her best to resist more than once and worked hard for her life, but her sister was blackmailed by her parents for a long time and had no desire to resist. Her personality has been alive and clear, becoming taciturn, and even expressionless. The original PO recalled that my sister was originally a girl who was even a beautiful girl who would be invited to the bar if she dressed up, but now that my sister let herself go, she is completely different from the past.
Recently, when the original PO chatted with her sister, the other party even said that she wanted to return to her life. Although there was an explanation afterwards that "it was a joke", the original PO was still very nervous, "feeling that my sister has a tendency to get into the other party's parents' arguments." Therefore, she asked netizens for help. Should she go to her sister's house to find the other party's parents' arguments? After the post
was exposed, it attracted the popularity of netizens. Some people feel that "I will have this kind of concept of maintaining and preventing old age. I think it is so terrible. Having a daughter is a responsibility and a duty. If the child is willing to take the initiative to filial piety in the future, it is the child's will, but it should not bend them, nor should it be to force them." "I have experienced it, and fortunately I came out." Some people think that the sister should be independent, "Depending on whether she wants to change, if she has a job and a salary, just move out directly."
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