The discussion on "We who are not kind" will not reduce. Lawyer Jun Qiu Chang sorted out the "possible" error of the husband's words when he was interacting in the drama, causing netizens to share the same situation. Netizens said, "Far away from mothers, heals all diseases" and "The conclusion is that mothers cannot marry."
Mother Bao Husband's 10 ProblemsJiu Qiu Chang analyzed one of the plots and listed 10 possible problems.
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Second, don't compare the current position to any ex."I am not her, I am me, please don't look for her smile on my face." Ji Qiuyun said that his ex is his ex. When it comes to his ex's goodness, whether he is heartless or not, he is humiliating his current position. My mother-in-law basically wants to make a grudge with her daughter-in-law, and it is not something that can be solved by "don't mind, I'm more straightforward when I speak."
Thirdly, no one has the right to ask others to consider, especially between the two."That's the case with my mother, don't compare with her." After this sentence is said, you can only compare with your husband. Ji Qiuyun said that basically, if you want to be a peacemaker, you cannot use this kind of technique to perfunctory, especially for your family. There are many unfair things among people. If you just solve them with patience, now it is forbearance, and then it will be hatred.
Jun Qiu said that people are equal, so why can we ask our spouse not to compare with each other just because of our growth? After all, solving problems and not calculating are completely different concepts.
Fourth, don’t outsource filial piety, come on your own if you want to do it.It is okay for family members to help each other, but please note that they are "each" and not as a senior, the commander of the evening dispatch. Don't do anything late, just because they are younger, otherwise it will be difficult to think that this is just a special match for their daughter-in-law. In the end, when treating a daughter-in-law as a daughter-in-law, many of them are "talking about rights and being a daughter-in-law as a daughter, and speaking about power and being a daughter."
Fifth, the keys at home are handed over to others without the consent of their spouse.This is a taboo because no one wants their home and any outsider can enter and exit. "What? You said your mother is not an outsider? Sorry, except for husband and wife and children, everyone else is outsider in marriage." The sons have already started their own family and have no boundaries yet. If you want to go to your home, search for the refrigerator, and feel abandoned, this is simply an invasion of your door.
Sixth, tell me directly that my mother-in-law can help you with confinement.Isn’t it a good thing for mother-in-law to help her confinement? Of course, it is a good thing to stand on the stage where your spouse agrees. However, not every mother-in-law should assume this responsibility, nor every wife, I hope that the mother-in-law can help me with a mother-in-law every day.
It is not just about confinement centers, mother-in-law, or mother-in-law, but it is actually good, and the focus is respect. "That was her confinement period, not yours, of course she made the decision."
Seventh, my first son.The Yizi of the Nine Heavens Xuannv? "Your first one" is Atsuko important? In this era, the law did not stipulate that the eldest son had an extra property, so why should this matter be emphasized? Basically, this will only make my mother very nervous, and "my family", "my family", "my family" sounds very scary. Can you tell the whole family is your family?
The eighth, the taste of our home.I don’t know why, when I see the smell, I think of the smell of the white sausage. It may be "missing your smile, missing your coat, missing your white snatch, and the smell of you."
said coolly, the taste of your home is no longer so important in this home. Because your home is your home, not mine. Since it is "we", there are relative "you", "Then, are you or us? If you like the taste of your house, I blame me for not understanding this taste, so you should go home and eat the taste of your house."
Ninth, learn to cook with my mother.Jun Qiuyun said that if you like mom cooking, don’t get married, and you can eat your mother’s love every day. Is it better to be better if you continue to live at home? The same is true for the New Year. During the Chinese New Year, I didn’t have to cook, nor did I have to help you cook. Or, why don’t you learn to order cooking and come to my house to cook when it’s New Year? Moreover, the daughter doesn’t have to do it anymore, will the daughter-in-law do it in the future? What weird logic is this? Why not a son?
Tenth, the mother-in-law cooks the food for Xuezi to eat.Jun Qiuyun said that he should not give his children food without the consent of his parents. Every child may have an allergy to certain foods or may not be suitable for eating certain foods. Mother usually prohibits her children from eating candy, chocolate, and fried chicken. As a result, her mother-in-law is a good person and feeds her at will. Mother can't complain. After a long time, it's probably the child and her mother are sick together.
Jun Qiuyun said that maybe someone would disagree with it, thinking it was a masterpiece of small topics, but it was just a few sentences, what should I mind? But don't forget that all words come from value viewing. When someone says that it's this kind of car, they will tell you,
"I'm so straightforward in my speech, please don't care." In fact, it is the true words, of course you should take them to heart. "Think about it carefully, the three views are incompatible. Since they are all unfair in marriage, should we continue to spend 20 years on him?"