Some parents ask children who leave society to pay filial piety fees every month. However, a male netizen posted a message on "Dcard" that due to the mother-in-law's request, the wife has to pay 10,000 yuan in filial piety fees every month, which is counted in the expenses of two people's families, which makes him feel psychologically unbalanced.
The original PO mentioned that the family has to pay more than 30,000 yuan in housing loans every month, and there are two children, eight and five, who have to raise them. He said that his wife thought he paid more, so the family expenses were 70% responsible, while his wife only had 30% of the burden.
However, the mother-in-law asked to pay 10,000 yuan in filial piety every month. Both the wife and mother-in-law thought that the two were married. The filial piety should be counted as family expenses and was borne by the two, which made the original PO feel psychologically unbalanced and complained: "Her mother has not raised me, why did the filial piety to her mother be paid with family expenses." The original PO believed that this distribution was unreasonable, and wanted to compete with his wife and mother-in-law, but was afraid of tearing her face and didn't know what to do.
Many netizens suggest that he can also give his parents filial piety, "You also give 10,000 yuan to your parents from the public fund, but actually get it into your own pocket, so her filial piety will become her 64," "Your parents just do it. As for how your parents use it after receiving filial piety fees, it is another question. Do you understand this? Finally, reminder: As long as you live differently, your wife has the right to support her parents, but you don't have it."
Some netizens also believe that filial piety fees are Handle it yourself, "I personally think that the debt that pays a lot is 70% of the debt that pays a little is 30% of the debt that pays a little is reasonable, and none of these should include their own filial piety fees. Please handle the filial piety fees separately!", "It should be fair. She draws 10,000, and you also need to draw 10,000. My husband and I use our own money to pay for our own money, and we don't take public funds. For us, the expenses of public funds are used in the families we formed (husband and wife& children) The filial piety fees of parents should not become the responsibility of others after marriage."