Is marriage a tomb of love? This answer has different answers in the hearts of every couple. Some people say that the only thing that does not change is "change". When two people get together because of their love, the longer they spend time together, the more they will start to think about whether they want to move towards the next chapter of life. Whether love can finally afford the "marriage" test depends entirely on the efforts of the two people.
The situations before and after marriage are very differentA wife in Taiwan posted a post on the topic of "talking to her husband" on the topic. She found that her husband seemed to have changed after marriage. She was worried that she wanted to share with him every time she encountered anything, and she didn't talk about anything before marriage, and every question could be extended for a long time; when talking to her husband after marriage, she couldn't get the same response as before marriage, and this gap made her very sad.
Because of this, she became less and less fond of talking to her husband, which led to the lack of communication and the relationship became less and less good. She also gave four examples to let everyone see what the difference was.
1. I think this restaurant is delicious
Before marriage: Then will we come and eat it next time?After marriage: I chose this, do you doubt me?
2. I think this restaurant is not delicious
Before marriage: Will we have a look at another one next time?After marriage: (dirty), you will say all the words, and you will choose it yourself next time.
3. I encounter unhappy things at work
Before marriage: Be good, don’t be angry, I will take you out for a walk.After marriage: Do I still need to teach you such a simple matter? You should be bullied by others!
4. Enjoy something exciting at work
Before marriage: (Although I don't understand, I will laugh with me)After marriage: What's so funny about your company?
Every reaction in daily conversations is really different from before marriage
The above examples appear in daily conversations, making the original PO no longer want to talk to his husband, and even felt that he had never talked about before, and he had become another person. She believed that every time her husband opened his mouth, he would hurt her self-esteem and would not care about her feelings. She admitted: "How can this kind of person be together for a long time... Why did it be hard to find out after marriage that he is another kind of person?"
Netizens expressed their feelings of distress and suggested finding time to communicate and deal with it
Many netizens thought that this situation would make people feel distressed after reading it. They even thought that their husband regarded the original PO as a fool, but they were married, and it seemed that they had no way to change anything. Some people also said that they had encountered the same situation. Her husband was also a very gentle person before marriage, but he would suddenly swear after marriage. She suggested that he PO: "After marriage, you can no longer be as angry as a little girl, but you have to say everything immediately to improve. Because if many things are not communicated immediately, more problems will arise over time. If you still don't want to give up this marriage, just find time to communicate with your husband."
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