Question: My little daughter has always been beautiful since she was a child and has a good temper. Is she an old family? There are two brothers and sisters on it, both of whom are over ten years older than her. She liked to go out with me since she was a child. At that time, my parents' home was in the same community. On weekends, my daughter would accompany me to her parents' home, and sometimes she would accompany her grandma and have sex with her friends. But it is said that "all young and old are suitable" and is a child who is easy to get along with.
In terms of learning, it is quite good. His liberal arts and science have developed evenly and his achievements are even better. When he was promoted to university, he received a four-year award from the Ivy League School. After graduating, he was admitted to a first-class medical school and obtained a doctor's license in the skin science department. After working for several years, I have now joined a clinic that cooperates with other medical doctors. The salary is very good, the work environment is ideal, and it is not far from our home. Her academic and career have always been in a state of turmoil. No matter how busy she is, I never heard of her complaining.
Since she entered university, she has met with a male classmates in the same dormitory. After a year of studying in the medical school, B moved to her residence to live together. We were afraid that the other party would affect our daughter's academic career, so our daughter also smiled and comforted us, saying that B was good at cooking and sweeping on weekdays, which was also helpful. B is from a white middle-aged family, with a good looks, diligence and sometimes unemployed. Their daughters got married when they found their first formal job.
A few years after marriage, we repeatedly told our daughter that B was not worthy of her at all, and that her daughter could find a more capable and more elegant husband.
She said that she likes doctor jobs very much, likes busy and helpful, and likes various out-of-town challenges. She also really wants to have children at home, so she needs a companion who can support her family and bring children.
B, a good-looking man, is peaceful and introverted, likes to write, and has been creating. He has lived with him for several years, and the two are very well matched. After forming a family, B can play a good role in the house husband.
The daughter has been married for ten years and has given birth to two boys and one girl. She is aged 9, 7 and 5. Recently, her daughter became pregnant accidentally and found out that she was a boy. The husband and wife are very happy and are ready to welcome her fourth child. After we found out, we were worried about our daughter and felt heartbroken.
Because my daughter had just had a man and a woman after marriage, B was still in charge. We went to help her by chance and let the young couple go out for a date. Seeing their family always in order, B also said thank you with a smile when she saw us.
Until the third child who was five years old was a thriller, he often tried to get along with him when he was a child, and he had to think more.
We often have to help B. Once, the third brother fell on a car and was bleeding and sent to the hospital for emergency diagnosis. He had more than ten strokes.
That time, B started driving on the way home from the hospital. Thinking that his son had just fallen and his eyes were bleak.
My husband is from the traditional Chinese northern region and cannot do anything at all. How could a big man cry for a little boy when he falls? What's more, the little boy who had just finished the wound didn't cry and jumped up again. My husband patted B and said, "Don't cry, and he showed his daughter as a joke." I saw that the family was all over the world, and then we drove home by ourselves.
It was summer vacation, and my daughter only called one phone during the day and was busy with work and did not go home. At night, my husband said, "B wrote an electronic chief letter to complain."
I went to see his email later. B just felt that his father-in-law was indifferent when something happened. B thought that his father-in-law had suddenly seen his feelings as a father. My husband can't afford to criticize outsiders, so he is too late and doesn't like this son-in-law in secret.
Since both men complained to their daughter, my husband has since become accused of his son-in-law. After that time, I was mostly going to my daughter's house to help, and my daughter had to take care of her family. Sometimes when I came back and saw that she was obviously very tired, she had to listen to the big and big things, and then she didn't bother to solve and make decisions for everyone. I felt heartbroken and didn't dare to say too much when I got home, so as not to go to argue with my son-in-law again.
★Master and husband and son-in-law. After my father and mother couldn't accept it, the daughter's belly became bigger and bigger and she was about to give birth. One evening, I drove to her house to deliver two dishes. I was about to put the dishes on the kitchen table and left, but I didn't expect to hear that the couple was quarreling. When my daughter saw me, she turned into a smile and greeted her. I felt heartbroken and couldn't hold it in for a while, so she cried. My son-in-law felt that he was not talking anymore, so my daughter comforted me with kind words.
She has been maintaining her husband and said that B is really good and very helpful. I said in a flash, "You use a butler who can fuck you, isn't that the case?" My daughter said, "Mom, we get married because we love each other. You can't let me divorce!" After I returned home, I complained to my husband. We all thought that my daughter was not able to get married and could not help her partner. But the children were lovely and innocent. We only helped their family in the future and showed fewer opinions.
But things will never be finished. After the fourth brother was born, their families became busier, and B's shortcomings also increased significantly.
He is very sensitive, nervous, nervous, and worried. He relies very much on his wife and mother-in-law, so he often put the youngest fourth in our house. He always says, "You are old and bring you the youngest."
We are traditional Chinese and cannot accept the new family that matches the roles of men and women in our family. Friends sometimes ask what does a son-in-law do? We all think that the son-in-law takes children at home, cooks and washes clothes, and it looks like eating soft food, and it is very terrifying.. Because a man wants to marry an outstanding woman, the two can still admire each other for a long time. Not only do he want to be outstanding himself, but he also needs to have his great temperament in order to be blessed.
He was able to truly divide the work and cooperate with his wife, indicating that he could overcome the conservative hurdle of respect for male and female roles. If you know who can make money, you will make money, and who can do it, you will take care of it. It should be determined by ability and personality, not by gender. Moreover, it is quite difficult for both husbands to trust each other, treat each other with sincerity, shortness of shortness, and cooperate with each other.
As for couples quarrel, which couple does not quarrel? You also have two older women. If you often go to their house to meet, you will also see the moment when the couple quarrel.
If you have been with any woman for a long time, you will find that some parts of their families are incomplete and their lives are insufficient, so your parents will not be worried. As the saying goes, "Every family has a difficult thought", why should we be troubled? Before your daughter is not married, she must have thought clearly about her life goals and what kind of life companion she needs to build her own family.
This is strange, Gerard Baker, a specialist in Huaer Street Journal, wrote a prominent short article in October this year, "A Good Man Is GettingEven Harder to Find". He used many statistical numbers to prove that the more advanced the technology country, women are getting better and better in almost every subject and industry, and are more outstanding than men every year. So much so that in the career market that requires advanced technology, the number of women is increasing year by year.
Because of this, the love and relationship between men and women are slowly changing. Nowadays, young people in their 20s and 30s in the United States have obtained a male-female ratio of 3:4, and more female college graduates are starting to be more than males. In other words, as time progresses, more and more young women will not be able to find men with the same level of education as her as their spouses, and will also mark the men's social status, financial income, and career, making it harder to match women of the same age. This also shows that the higher the education level, the harder it will be to find the same matching men. So if you, a daughter, are so satisfied with her marriage, you should cherish it for her.
★Do not over-the-counter marriagetimes are changing, and it may soon come, "the female lead is outside, the male lead is inside" may become a very common marriage phenomenon. In a young marriage, there is one thing that is that couples need to discuss together and decide on their own marriage. For issues such as holidays, money use, family responsibilities, and how children can raise money, they must make their own decisions. Parents have rich experiences and provide valuable opinions. It is very wise for them to hear these experiences, but parents should encourage their daughters and son-in-law to discuss and take care of each other.
Our parents always feel that they are helping their daughter, and they can't help but make suggestions often, which will cause your daughter to feel that she is being fucked. It would be even worse if the daughter, who has always been in trouble, is difficult to be a human being between the two sides and the two generations, or even occasionally hates her spouse. Because "the heroine is outside, the hero is inside" is the same as any marriage, the spouse must be put first, she must support her spouse in front of her parents, and the couple must form a joint line in order to grow over time.
The participation of overscore may be counterproductive. No matter how strong your parents are, they cannot accompany their daughters to their life path. In short, the older our sons and daughters are, the less we should do as parents. Remind yourself that letting go at the right time is the greatest achievement for our children and our parents. Wish you a family!