
Artist Xiao Tiantian published a 5,000-word long article and complained that she was abused by her husband. She was resigned by Song Yimin and his wife and Bai Jiayi and his wife. Xiao Tiantian hopes her husband apologizes for domestic violence, and then says, "I haven't hit you again the second time, it's my biggest apology to you." Psychiatricians remind domestic violence that there are usually five signs before committing violence, and in the face of violence, "leave is the only option."
The "Great Light" church dispute led by artist Song Yimin and his wife Chen Weihan has made new developments today (5th). Xiao Tiantian wrote the whole story of being abused by her husband Mr. Song in her face chief's article. At that time, in order to ask her husband who was playing on a mobile phone to go to wash clothes, her husband suddenly angrily and beat him. When domestic violence occurred, Xiao Tiantian immediately thought of calling the police. However, she was extremely impeded by the "glowing" Song Yimin and his wife and Bai Jiayu. They told her not to experience the injury or call the police, and asked her to ask the angry question, "Why would someone sue her husband?", "He just hit you once, not 3 or 4 times, can't you understand?"
{99 999}Xiao Tiantian doesn't understand. Bai's family is a woman and has a daughter, so why can't she be in the same way? How can she let domestic violence go? She believes that domestic violence is not counted, and domestic violence is tolerate zero! After the incident, Xiao Tiantian not only endured the indifference of the church, but also continued to accept the cold and violent expressions of her husband's eyes and words! In the end, Xiao Tiantian only hoped to get an apology from her husband, but she didn't expect to just change back: "I haven't hit you again the second time, it's my biggest apology to you!"
Top 5 signs for domestic violence peoplePsychiatric physician Wang Jiaxin once visited and pointed out that domestic violence people usually have 5 signs before they commit violence. Once you see that the other party has these behaviors, it is best to leave the scene and protect yourself quickly.
1. Drink more alcohol2. The more you talk, the louder you get, the louder you speak
3. Expression is angry
4. Fist clenched with fists5. Breathing becomes rapid
When you encounter domestic violence or marriage problems, many people will seek religious beliefs, but remember that when a place cannot solve your difficulties, you should find someone else, such as professional directors such as Teacher Zhang, Family Education Service Center, or help from friends and lawyers. Before the incident cannot be completely resolved, first calling the police and applying for a protection order is indeed the greatest guarantee for yourself and your family.People who suffer from violence can also go online to seek some self-protection resources. For example, the Protection Service Department of the Ministry of Welfare has a lot of practical information about domestic violence in the domestic violence prevention and control publicity area, such as how to apply for a protection order? What is the application procedure? It is difficult to verify the protection order for mental and verbal violence. It is recommended that the diagnosis of psychiatric clinics, recording of sounds, certificates from friends, and retain related objects used by the perpetrators can be used to facilitate the verification. In addition, many victims are worried about what to do if there is no obvious external injury. The Protection Service Department also teaches you that you can go to the Central Medical Hospital or the massage center in the workshop to obtain treatment orders for internal injuries as one of the evidence. However, if you want to sue, the test orders of the Western Hospital can be used as the main notice for filing criminal and civil lawsuits, but the treatment orders of the Chinese Hospital and massage center can only be used as supporting evidence.
【Important Information】The Ministry of Welfare Protection and Services Protection Department faces domestic violence in the domestic violence prevention and control publicity area. In addition to helping others, its own actions are also the key. Many victims dare not speak out and choose to be tolerant, which will only make the perpetrators commit repeated crimes. A few years ago, former secretary Tong Zhongguo's wife was in a sensation. At that time, Lin Zixin, a doctor at the Kingsoft Branch of National Taiwan University Hospital, once cried out in pain that tolerating violence in the name of love would only fall into a cycle, "Faced with violence is the only choice." Xiao Tiantian’s approach is right, she has zero tolerance for domestic violence, and she can only be far away from the pain if she speaks loudly.